just came back from my family dinner.. suddenly something inspiring me to write something about family. this article doesnt concern with my university life, but i just wish to share my opinion about FAMILY.
hmm.. where to start.. well.. first of all, let me intro abit about my family background. when i was a teenager, i used to hang out alot wif my friends since primary till secondary.. till the time.. i finally realize the importance of a family.
being the youngest, u might think the youngest always get spoilt.. n u envy it.. it's true.. i always become a spoilt child.. yea, i hav 2 mum, both of them very sayang me.. n i have lots of sibling who treat me very nice n good. i hav b very happy when i'm a kids!
but sometimes i feel sad.. since i'm d youngest,sometimes i feel very lonely when every1 has grow up. some of my siblings are married and hav kids, and some of them having date. i remmeber i'm so sufferng when suddenly all of my family members seems like doesnt concern anymore, most of them busy with their part of life.and pai seh to say, i did cried lots of time in front of my mum about this b4.. haha..
nowadays, i really happy with my family.. they seems like back to normal.. both of my sister still very sayang me.. my 2nd bro aso.. they always make me feel comfort n happy.. off course my parents too.. haha..(peace, not showing off)
well.. here's d point.. in my university, everyone know I'm a PBSM(Persatuan Balik Setiap Minggu), and yea... i'm quite famous of it, coz whenever i take a big bad walk in d campus, they sure will say "jia nee, go back home arr.. " haha..
yea.. i really back home, coz i enjoy back home. at d same time, i hav too many reason to back home. you may say, because i'm a little princess who cant live without a family or anything... i don't mind. coz i know wat's my true reason.
being d youngest, i always feel i have missed out lots of time wif my family. mayb u think family is not important for u, and u very difficult to communicate wif them or so watever.. it's true some time.. but do u noe, sometimes u more willing to find a way to communicate with ur friends instead of ur family members?do u feel sometimes u treat ur friends much better than ur family?
raising a child isnt a easy things. your daddy has sacrifice himself to work so hard to raised u up. but in d end, u blame him for not spending time wif u or watever. your mum wake up in d middle of night to comfort u when u r kid, in return u blame her n scold her when she juz advise u or do something make u unhappy. both of them work hard n sometimes do something which u think embarassed u.. and u hate them. hav u ever think their reason doing this?
i wish u all understand,in a family,"forgive and forget" hav 2 b practise all d time. dont tell ppl ur parents like to mumble or any -ve image. u should noe why they r doing this.instead, u should tell ppl u r proud to hav them, coz they r d ppl who most sayang u in this world.
by here, i also wish u all can appreciate what u r having now. most of the things n entertainment r came from ur parents. they are the one who fight so fiercely and desperately so that u have a better home n life.
the most important things that i 1 2 convey is, pls appreciate ur family. whenever u hav time, back home n communicate wif them. your parents will feel very much hapiery when there's a family reunion. n that's wat my siblings trying to work on for us. and i always appreciate n happy when there's a family occasion.
sometimes it's really difficult for us to choose btw family n friend. but for me, i believe "charity begin at home".
for some of my friend who think sticking wif family means u r not independent, i hope u undertsand, independent is judged by d way u do ur things. staying outside doesnt mean u r very independent, coz some of my fren still like to depend on others though they staying outside.
god is fair. whenever we gain something here, we will lose something there. n it's true. unless u r very powerful till u can gain everything.. haha..for now, i believe u should have already understand that in ur life, u hav choose ur fren or family.
please dont change our chinese culture. chinese always take family as very 1st priority.n that's y we hav "tuan yuan fan". i don't mean you hav to sacrifice ur life with fren. but atleast, back home once awhile. share your story with them. bring them out. do whatever u think it should b done to ur family. n do much better.u wouldnt noe, somtimes ur little effort will make them fly in the kite. i believe, ur parents will proud to have u as their child.
p/s: though i seems like abit psycho.. which doesnt look like me, but i really wish everyone can appreciate their family. my mum told me, sometimes she feel sad when she found tat none of her child willing to accompany her. what u think?